I was going through some old photos the other day when I stumbled upon one I had taken several months ago for a young women's night. Our activity was, "Remembering Our Ancestors", and each of the girls were supposed to bring something that represented someone from their family. Most of the girls brought old family pictures, personal ancestry stories, or heirlooms that had been passed down through the years. I'm not a genealogist by any stretch of the imagination, but I do have strong personal ties to all of my grandparents (since most of them are still living today). I love to hear stories about the old days when life was simpler, or how much the price of a movie ticket cost when my grandparents were my age. I've discovered for myself that when you learn about your ancestors, you are essentially learning about yourself.So, for ancestry night I decided to share a painting which features my great grandmother Ida Renfro Biegler standing in her famous garden in Elko, Nevada. The picture was painted by my aunt Lynn several years ago, and hangs in my grandma Maggie's living room. I love this painting for several reasons, but the most important of which is that my great grandma, grandma, mother, aunts and myself all love to garden. For some unexplainable reason, it's always been something I have enjoyed doing. In fact, whenever I was asked if I would rather clean the bathroom or pull weeds, I always opted for the latter. I love getting my hands dirty, pulling up the nasty weeds, watering, watching living things grow with my help, and of course smelling and seeing the fruits of my labors (no pun intended). The parable of the olive tree has always been my favorite scripture story. There is something so deeply satisfying about watching your little patch of earth blossom.
My grandma, Margaret, always hates it when someone asks her if she has a favorite flower, "Because it would be like choosing a favorite child." However, I do know that she has a special affinity for Iris, which also happen to be my favorite flower. She has given me many bulbs, plants, seed starts, and especially tips for taking care of my babies. I love that gardening is all about sharing! When I left on vacation a few weeks ago, I tearfully told my sister-in-law (who was watching the house) to take good care of my flowers, and take lots of pictures of the Iris because they would be blooming while I was gone. I wouldn't expect anyone who doesn't love gardening to understand this, and at times I'm not sure I understand it myself. It would almost be like dressing up for a party, and then deciding at the last minute that you weren't going. I love in the painting that Ida is standing in the garden next to her colorful Iris. Ida was an amazing gardener, who had several acres of flower beds, trees and a finely manicured lawn. M
Great grandma Ida also helped plan the layout and design of the Elko City park, which is still there to this day. I loved being able to share these stories as well as the painting with my young women, and be able tell them how people would come from miles around to see my great grandmothers beautiful yard. When I'm outside digging in the dirt, watering my flowers, or sitting on the porch watching the clouds roll by, I can't help but wonder if my ancestors are there enjoying it right along with me.
8 comments:
I LOVE this post!
What a great YW night! Good ideas! There is so much to benefit an person turning the hearts of the children to their fathers..
I wish I would have gotten a bookmark when I was there Saturday from your book club, and also do you have an extra of the one pictured? Talent just oozes from you girl! I love your love of flowers, and I totally get you with the blooming thing. My Dad could have a party for the 2-3 days that his " beloved sego lilly " blooms. It's so cute, and I enjoy it as much as you do!
PS: I don't know how in the world you happened to be on my site when we were trying to get the post/slideshow to work. It was only on my blog for like 1 minute! Way funny! Love ya girl...
I'm really glad at least one of my friends gets the gardening thing. I also think it is way cool that you can get all the garden advise you want and need from your own family. Every one around my way thinks it is to domestic to get your hands dirty, I am pretty sure that every one of my neighbors thinks I am a few marbles short as I spend count less hours working in a yard that really isn't mine. I just cannot help myself there is just something about a little seed becoming a glorious beauty that has me captivated.
That was a really sweet post! I am not talented like you with the flowers, but I have been having some luck with a vegetable garden. I find weeding very meditating and I was out 2 hours last night with my hands in the dirt. (Although, I have to wear gloves, but I do enjoy the smell of dirt.)
That is totally cool about the Elko Park. I have never been there, but one day I will have to check it out! I would love to see pictures of your garden!
Have a wonderful day! -Suzanne
Since I don't check the blogs every day I am always playing catch-up and reading things late. I want you to know how much I love you and your family. You are remarkably talented and intelligent (as are your other siblings) and since I think we look alike :) ...I think you're cute too!
Hang in there through all the stuff -- Satan really wants us to feel we are alone and no one else can possibly understand. We will NOT be defeated.
See you on the 4th at Carolyn's and we'll talk. (5:00)
Loved the post! I was out working in my flower garden this morning while it was cool. I have a box for herbs and veggies and one for cutting flowers. Then we have some borders too. I am waiting for the sweet peas. They are slow this year. If I had to choose--they would be my favorite.
I remember--during visits to Elko--waking up at Grandma B's and feeling the cool sweet breeze from her yard as it wafted though the open window and there she would be--puttering. I especially remember that she had some pea gravel walk ways in the garden, a green house, sugar snap peas (which I plant now each year) and lots of flowers. The yard had big trees over the lawn area and it made for a wonderful cool and shady place to play.
We do have gardening in our genes! And I learned a love of watering and gardening from my mother just by seeing the satisfaction it brought her.
PS...Did they have plastic spades in 1782?
My mom is a huge gardener so I have tried to follow in her footsteps as well. I am definitely not to her level yet but I also have two little kids so I can't be out there all day like her. I really do think it is in your genes to either love it or hate it. Maybe it's because I love the memories of being out with my mom talking to her while she was weeding or planting something and being so proud of the flowers when I would drive up to the house. Who knows? You are such a good writer, it makes me sick. You use such good description about people and places. Would you just write a book already?!
I'm the guilty party, the one who asked Maggie what her favorite flowers were! And I understand her frustrated answer now the more involved I get with flowers. I used to say Columbine was my favorite, but I've learned to appreciate each kind in turn (the peonies come out and they are spectacular, but only seem to last a week or two, then they are gone way too quickly!). I love being greeted by the geraniums and petunias and marigolds every time I pass the front door...
I so admire you, and I think it is absolutely fabulous to have gardening in your blood like that! You are an inspiration to me. My mom would always put out some annuals every year, but most of my life she seemed to be trying to get away from the farm she grew up on. So I'm essentially learning from scratch (and still trying to love it!).
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